Hi and Welcome…I’m Desley Murphy

Wellbeing Specialist and Advanced EFT Tapping Practitioner.

I specialize in supporting women who feel stressed, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves to clear their emotional clutter - to gently release emotional burdens that no longer serve them, enabling them to feel grounded, clear, and more deeply connected to themselves.

My work is informed by my experience as a High School Teacher, a Counsellor, a Yoga and Mindfulness Teacher, a Reiki Master, a parent and grandparent.

Across these roles, I have worked closely with people navigating stress, pressure, emotional overwhelm, and the quiet exhaustion that often comes from caring deeply for others. I understand this because I have lived it too.

Today, I bring together my lived experience in EFT Tapping, education, energy healing, and mindfulness to help others release the emotional weight of the past, calm their nervous system and reconnect with themselves in a safe, gentle, and sustainable way.

If you would like to work with me to clear your emotional clutter and connect with more energy, ease and emotional balance:

‍ ‍*Book an EFT Tapping Session

*Join a FREE Group Tapping session

On the first Thursday of each month at 10am AEST. Join me and EFT Practitioner and former psychologist, Trish Roache, as we tap with groups to help them reduce stress and feel calmer.

What might you find in your emotional clutter?

When you start gently exploring “emotional clutter,” you find a mixture of emotional layers that have built up over time as you’ve coped, adapted, and moved through life.

You may find moments that feel heavy or unresolved—unprocessed experiences, old disappointments, or emotions that were never fully expressed or witnessed. As well as staying busy, staying in control, staying “fine,” or disconnecting from your own needs so you could meet everyone else’s.

And woven through all of this are the parts of you that were doing their very best: your resilience in difficult times, your sensitivity to others, your ability to adapt, and your deep capacity to keep going even when things felt overwhelming.

You may notice how survival patterns and strength often sit side by side—how what once protected you may now feel heavy, and how what sustained you also reveals just how capable you are.

And underneath it all, many people find something very important: a sense of self-awareness and growing compassion, as they begin to understand themselves rather than judge themselves.

So emotional clutter isn’t just “stuff to remove.” It often becomes a doorway back to who you are underneath the coping—strong, sensitive, capable, and still very much there.

If you would like my support to help you clear the clutter and find more of your strong and capable self send me an email.

What others have said…

“Desley is a highly capable and skillful practitioner. I felt heard, seen, supported and guided through a big healing process. My gratitude runs deep and anyone who gets to work with you Desley is truly lucky” Sarah B. EFT Practitioner, Auckland, NZ

“Desley’s highly gifted and intuitive processes are powerful and transformative. I feel like a different person after working with her. She does incredible work and has helped me to heal years and layers of hidden emotions I didn’t dare to express. I feel so happy, blessed and free.” Valerie D. Musician, Brisbane, AU

“Thank you Desley for helping me so much. I came to this work with what felt like chronic fatigue. I was feeling exhausted, both physically and emotionally. As I tapped with Desley I felt the internal load start to soften. Over time, my energy began to return, my nervous system felt more settled, and I reconnected with a sense of calm and inner vitality I thought I had lost.” Karen J. Melbourne, AU

“Desley tapping with you has helped me let go of the people pleaser in me and find the courage to communicate more honestly and empathically with my husband which has helped us have a deeper and more authentic connection with each other. You saved our marriage.” Thank you. Name withheld

“I love your work, Desley—especially your tapping and dream processes. They feel so powerful and deeply supportive, and you’ve helped me gently see and understand things I didn’t even know were there. This work is so exciting.” Kate A, Wellington, NZ

“Thank you for being such an insightful mentor Desley. As an Enneagram 2, I am so used to being the one who holds space for everyone else that I didn’t realise how disconnected I had become from myself. In your sessions, I felt truly seen and understood in a way I’ve rarely experienced. You helped me recognise my patterns with such compassion, and I finally felt like I could turn some of that care back toward myself.” Justine, S Brisbane AU

Book EFT Tapping sessions with Desley

Online or in person

E: hello@tappingwithdesley.com

It is my passion to support you to gently release what you’ve been holding onto so you can reconnect with your unique and beautiful self and feel more calm, confident, and joyful.

-Desley Murphy