What is EFT Tapping?
EFT Tapping is a suite of highly effective, evidence-based stress reduction techniques that blend elements of Western cognitive behavioral therapy with Eastern acupressure to promote emotional well-being. The process involves gently tapping specific acupressure points on the face, hands, and upper body (see diagram below) while focusing on a stressful emotional situation you would like to resolve.
EFT Tapping gently shifts the body from a state of fight, flight, freeze, or fright into a place of emotional calm, allowing for a deeper connection with feelings of peace and harmony. When we experience stress and strong emotions, the amygdalae—the part of the brain responsible for emotional and behavioral regulation—become highly activated, making it difficult for us to think clearly. Our body responds as if under threat, triggering survival mode behaviours like a racing heart, sweaty palms, tight chest, and shallow breathing. This fight-flight-freeze-fright response leaves us feeling dysregulated and reactive.
Tapping sends a calming signal to the amygdalae, helping to reduce emotional reactivity and restore clarity. As we relax, we regain access to the prefrontal cortex—the brain’s center for higher reasoning, decision-making, and social-emotional regulation. This allows us to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively, making choices that align with our best intentions.
Our brain is amazing. It is continually impacted by our thoughts and feelings and is constantly reorganizing itself by forming new neural pathways in response to our experiences (neuroplasticity). When we tap our brain slowly rewires new neural pathways giving us the opportunity to think, feel and behave differently, leaving behind unhelpful stress patterns.
The more we practice EFT Tapping the more we become empowered to positively respond to our own emotional stress.
EFT Tapping can be used with the support and guidance of a Certified EFT Practitioner, or it can be used independently as a self-help tool. A combination of the two works best for more distressing experiences.
EFT Tapping has been extensively researched to assess its effectiveness. To date it has been researched in more than 10 countries, by 60 investigators, whose results have been published in over 20 different peer-reviewed journals and the effectiveness of EFT has been documented in over 100 studies.
#EFT Tapping is not counselling or psychological therapy, and I am not a licensed health care professional. I do not diagnose or treat any medical or mental health conditions. EFT Tapping is not a substitute for medical or mental health care. If you have long-standing emotional or physical trauma, please take full responsibility for yourself, and consult your health care practitioner before using EFT/Tapping.
The Tapping Points
The Tapping Points

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